The Internet if full of useful information for inquisitive children. Unfortunately, the World Wide Web also has a dangerous side. Predators are often lurking around social networking sites, and scouring sites that are appealing to children. Parents don’t have to ban their children from the Internet, however, they just need to implement a few safety options.

Participation

When my daughter was under the age of eight, I only let her online when I could be actively involved in what she was doing. We went on it together, and I spend a lot of time explaining and reminding her of what was okay and not okay to post online. She knew she was not allowed to carry a conversation with a stranger, or put her full name or address anywhere on the web. Standing over my child’s shoulder was not always convenient, but it kept her safe and prepared her for the next step.

Mild Independence

My daughter is now considered to be a tween, so I give her a bit more independence. I don’t stand over her shoulder, but I do have several rules that will keep her safe. She isn’t allowed to go on any websites that she hasn’t received permission first to go on. I also don’t allow her to accept friend requests until after I check the person out. I don’t have any special software because my daughter and I communicate very well together. There are some excellent software packages available at stores like Staples and Office Depot if you feel that is the best option for your family.

Almost Completely Independent

Once my daughter reaches the age of 14, I will extend to her as much independence as I can. Until the age of 18 though, I will still monitor her Internet use. Each week I’ll glance over her posts to make sure nothing inappropriate is being said, and that none of her friends are acting inappropriately either. From time to time I will also check her Internet history.

Because my daughter has been made aware of this logical progression of independence, she doesn’t fight it or think it an invasion of her privacy. She is more aware of the Internet dangers, and appreciates that we have a plan to keep her safe and happy.